FRUSTRATION !!

Frustration!!

Now that rings a bell...
Isn't that true that no matter how small or big the level is,
you all are either frustrated or trying to suppress it with an aim to overcome it.

To start with, I won't go into depth initially. Rather I would give an end
to end idea of what exactly this miraculous word, "Frustration" is.

Soon you will realize that it can never be overcome, rather it could be allayed.
Make it your friend and life will be simpler!
First comes a thought or an initiation from anyone or from any circumstance--->Then comes deep thinking,
the time when you start thinking over it--->Then comes observance about the present and future
which generally includes comparison with others--->Then comes introspection
that are you really happy or is this the end of the road---->and then comes Frustration!!

Isn't the word so illusive or you consider it so tormenting, that what you perceive
after reading the above is still on the darker side.
Well, to be precise or to make it less negative, I must begin with a simpler explanations.

Frustration has its root in urge. Like an urge to achieve something, or do something.
That means, it is the impetus that drives you into an itinerary that eventually
assuage our hearts by providing you motivation.

I haven't gone so far but you can notice that the word is already sounding positive enough.
I mean Frustration and Motivation! Isn't that great!
Now allow my words ripen your thoughts and let your brains unravel to absorb
the new essence of the word Frustration!!

THE SAME I HAVE TRIED TO DESCRIBE THROUGH MY UPCOMING BOOK ON A DRIVE WITH LIFE !!(CLICK HERE)

Unfortunately the brain is not like a good bottle of wine that gets
better with age by sitting in a cool dark room. It needs constant
pressure to grow, develop, and even maintain skills over time.
Our brain and central nervous system hunger for Frustration.
The gaining of new knowledge, a desire to experience and understand
love, and the ability to master a new skill are the things that makes
our nerve cells buzz with excitement.

Now it's up to you how you take this excitement. Either as a dose that
overwhelms you and force you into the cauldrom of depression or as an emotion
you can use to drive yourself incessantly towards the golden light of satisfaction.

Frustration is like any other emotion with its own pros and cons.
Isn't it time that we think beyond what we have been told or experienced.
And use everything in a way that can make us better and better, always!

A good question to ask yourself is how you'll handle frustration.
Do you see it as a challenge to overcome, and an opportunity for growth?
Or do you yell and scream and hope someone comes for your rescue?

If you can't find the answers, I will provide you the direction.

Feel the struggle for all it’s worth, and find a new way to overcome it.
You will gain confidence, and those nerve cells might even start buzzing
with excitement again to face the next challenge that comes your way.

May all your frustration plough your heart with seeds of success and happiness!

!!!!!!!!!!NOW THE PUNCH LINE!!WHOOOOOAA!!!!!

To be the man...You got to beat the man!! And this time your opponent is you... It high time you beat yourself  and overcome your emotions...Happiness and satisfaction will then be your comrades :)

Passion

Passion

Hi friends, I humbly apologize for the long absence. But I am back with a bang! ;)

Hope you all had a wonderful time, because I obviously did by passionately enjoying
my days.

The topic here I have chosen, was to be honest suggested to me by a friend.

Well, I will stop there and move on with accentuating on the essence of this wonderful word that has
such a significant meaning in our lives.

Passion is that driving force, the impetus that boosts your energy exponentially in any task.
And when you indulge ourselves to live that passion, you fly high beyond the constraints of the
external world. You're in love with whatever you do. You cherish every moment of your lives intensely.

WHOOOOOOOO!!You're in a different world. But the sad part is that a select few are lucky enough to live and relive their passion while the others get stuck in the twiddling web of worldly responsibilities.

Isn't that strange, that if each and every one of us had
lived our passion, this world would have been a different
and better place. Indeed we have lost numerous
talents in the process.

But stop again, have I been forgetting something.
Yup I am! With every pros there comes a flaw, and the
word can be so misleading at certain times.

When we are passionate about something, we fuel ourselves
high and give out best with utmost dedication.
Harmoniously passionate people can engage in work in an intense way,
which they self-report as “concentration.” And then they
dissociate from the reality. They consider them to be the most
hard working person around. Is it not self obsession?
Surely it is! There is a sharp line between obsession and passion
which may drive you away from reality.

You become obsessed with something the moment you're not in
control of time and emotions. Your passion smothers your
conscience and for you, it becomes more than your family
and life. A failure then blocks your mind frame and you
may fall in the cockpit of depression.

Always remember, passion only needs your time and dedication
and that time could be of any amount that assuage your
hearts. But never forget that the moment you raise the level of
getting satisfied, you will require more time and dedication,
and then you cross that sharp line into the realms of obsession.

Others may cry of not living their passions because of the
responsibilities. But is it really so? Has the time passed
so much that you cannot take risks or even dedicate
an hour from your daily lives?

The same I have tried to convey through my upcoming book On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Again, passion may not be something that is always useful
in your day to day living, until you choose it to under self-control.
You may be passionate about dancing that may also earn you bread and butter,
but what if your passionate about wearing new clothes. Well it may not sound feasible to survive
only on your passion, but one can think hard and link their passion
with their jobs. For example, a branded cloth shop!

I hope the discussion here may help you. Because Whatever I said was a reminded for you
to introspect hard!
I will now like to summarize the above in a sentence:

Be Passionate But Be Yourselves!!

And now for the punch line as usual :D

!!The time is always right to do what is right!!

Ambition !!

Perhaps I have chosen another topic that deals with our day to day lives. Now I may not accentuate at it's definition. I assume you that by your experiences and perceptions you may have an idea of it. I would rather brush up things that you may have forgotten. 

Ambition...isn't that something each and everyone of us have deep within our hearts....A common man dreams to be rich...That's ambition...A businessman wants become even richer....That's ambition...A spiritual guru may crave to attain 'moksha'...I may even say it to be an ambition...

Our lives are full of 'Wants' and 'Desires' and believe me when I say so, they eventually adds up to shape your ambition. Haven't we been hearing "Think what you wish for" because  wishes are the consequences of your years and years of burning ambition!

So you see how the cycle goes on. Your blind ambition may drive you away from your family and friends or even your moral values. An unreachable ambition may even drive you crazy or send you to the cockpit of depression.

I must say a life without ambition is a waste. BUT think for a moment my friends, should we not stress on 'What we can' rather than cooking rabbits that cannot be  caught.

The same I have tried to emphasize in my upcoming book On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Now I am not trying to sway you away from your goals that happens to be the destination of your ambitions. Will and determination makes everything achievable. I just wanna add that everything has a price. So make sure what you pay for before engrossing yourselves to capture the flag of your ambition held high.

Life changes and so does circumstances which may throw new challenges. You have got only one life to live. Because the people you encounter while climbing up the ladders of ambition towards success, you will find them at some points while climbing or falling down.
Every moment, try to think and analyse what you want or desire...Who knows it slowly adds up to a swirling tornado of uncontrollable ambition....And if you forgot to think before, pray that you don't fall hard.

**********************************THE PUNCH LINE***************************

!!WHO CARES WHAT YOU ARE, LIVE LIFE KING SIZE!!

BUT EVEN A KING IS USELESS WITHOUT ANYONE TO ACKNOWLEDGE OR RESPECT HIM ;)

ENJOY :)

SACRIFICE !

Sacrifice!

A word held so noble which can even define the
moral character of a person.

In simple terms, it is a loss of something
you give or do for a "Better Cause".

Mark my words again, "Better Cause".

But in due course of time the word has been confused so much with our own interpretations,
that the essence of the word is fading away. People offer sacrifice to gods which may include
fruits, flowers, blood, food, money and the list is countless.

People offer sacrifice by giving away money or food to a beggar.

People sacrifice their time and emotions to help their family and friends.

All looks well and fine with nothing wrong in that. But dear friends as I discussed above, sacrifice is
for a better cause. Does the blood, food, flowers you offered to the Gods is a for a better cause. If yes then for whom. If it brings fortune to you, then is it a sacrifice or hypocrisy.

THINK ON IT!

You may give something to a beggar, he may take it. He is happy for now. But ask yourself, what you did was good or better. If it is good then work for better. Get involved in social activities and bring smiles on the underprivileged.

We sacrifice our time and emotions to help our friends and family. Now if it is selfless, then you're flawless. But what if it is done so as to impress them, or have expectations to receive the same
in the future.

We all have our own way of deciphering the deep meaning of the word.
I have just provided the direction to go on.

Think on it buddies!
The same I have tried to discuss in my upcoming book
On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Now the Punch Line as Usual!

Happiness is not a destination, it's a journey...So Live the Moment!! :)

Love : A Highly Discussed Topic!

Love : A Highly Discussed Topic!

Hello guys, I hope all of you are rocking as ever.
The topic I chose again, because that is something
discussed and felt most prominently than the others!

What is love?A question I have portrayed and answered
prominently and frequently in my up coming book.
On A Drive With Life!!(Click here)

Now Lemme answer!!
Is it an emotions...A Feeling...A experience...
Or just and another name of satiating our needs..

Well to very honest, all can be summed up into one
and the result is love. But before I move forward,
I wanna add for sure that love is not exactly
between a girl and a boy!We have most often heard
terms like, motherly love, brotherly love, fatherly love,
friendly love and you can go on. Love is in the air
buddies, you just need to broaden your perspective.
The feeling when you're loved and cared is the best.
So my first suggestion to all of you is to stop looking
for it at only one place. We all have been gifted with
love in one form or another. Look at the right place
and you'll be rejuvenated to a new height! Take this
chance, take this moment and recall all who love you
at present, be it anyone. Take this opportunity and call
them, talk to them and feel better than before.

Now you may ask again... Why haven't I explained what love
is or discussed anything about it. Dear friends, I repeat again
Love is broader than your percieve. You will take ages to decipher
the codes of love. But one thing I must say, if you've really read
my blog with an open mind and heed to what I say and have stirred up
your emotions, then...The feeling, the emotion, the experience or
 the need to get in touch with your loved ones right now,
is what love actually is...Enjoy the moment!!

Time for the Punch Line ;)

Love is not walking,talking,hugging,kissing
or something you feel at the moment. It is anything
that evinces respect,care,concern,trust and compromise!

Regret!!

Regret!!

Wow! The topic is gonna gain some attention here.
On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Isn't that something we all good people undergo at some point in our lives.
An emotion very less felt but when incinerated, turns out to be a swirling
inferno. Our hearts screams for forgiveness or guilt.
Yes!! Regret and guilt are two different aspects of our lives.
We regret and the outcome is guilt. When in guilt, believe me pals,
You're gonna do mistakes that you have never ever done before.

You may think about the incident, layer by layer and may imagine things that you might not have even done.
You may even try to decipher the emotions of others, like, what they might have thought,
Or you have made a fool of yourself, or they would be laughing out at you…etc etc…
Or you may be overwhelmed with emotions to a level, like when it happens in break ups,
Exams(for studying less), or hurting your closed ones…You may think and think,
blaming yourself for even the slightest of non-existent mistake!
And then you even forget that actually what you are!
On A Drive With Life!! (Click Here)
C'mmon man, the fact you even think about such things signifies you're good at heart.
And that you mean't nothing bad. The point here I want to stress is that
you cannot change the basic ingredient of a person. What you did at that point of time
was the best at that circumstance and mindset. Now if you're blaming your mindset
then know this, the purity of heart weighs above all others!

You're heart will find the solution. Just give some time, or sort it out...
But for the moment, just chillax, and watch the beauty known as life!!

Now a punch line as usual!!

WHAT HAPPENED DOESN'T MATTERS, WHY IT HAPPENED MATTERS THE MOST!!!
On A Drive WIth Life!!(Click Here)

Example: You slapped a young beggar!OMG you're such a monster(That's what fools
say)...But when you follow the above line, you'll drill down to know why it
happened...Like the beggar tried robbing him and he slapped in self defence...

ENJOY!!!

Stress!

Stress: On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)
A word so stressed in our living memories!!
Well it is something that challenges our well being.
And it may be anything: May be physical,
,mental,emotional and you can just count on!
But the the word is stomped deeply in our mindset in a way like
>>>>Stress is when we are disturbed...Overburdened
with adverse circumstances with no solution in hand<<<<
Whoopie!Isn't that driving us totally stressed out!
Well, life is simple: Life is a characteristic that
distinguishes objects that have signaling and
self-sustaining processes from those that do not!

To be more precise, the essence of life is to survive,
gather all the energy to do that and most importantly
the will to execute that. Anything adverse you do
is against the purpose of life. When you generate
emotions that stirs you completely, your overwhelmed
and you freak out...Believe me buddies it is then when your
stressed, be it physical,mental or emotional.
Control your emotions, gather optimism, because
that is why you're here for: To Survive!

                  >>>>>>To The End<<<<<<<<<
Control your thoughts because it will affect what you speak!
Control what you speak because it will affect what you do!
Control what you do because it will affect your behavior!
Control your behavior because it will reflect your habits!
Control You habits because it will shape your character!
Control your character because it will eventually decide your destiny!!!!

Life !

Life !

Life is a characteristic that distinguishes objects 
that have signaling and self-sustaining processes 
from those that do not...

The definition of life... Isn't it strange that the same appiles in practical life.
' A friend asked me why shoud I worship God, What garantee is that I will be
happy tomorrow or I will not die the next moment.'

Well an interesting question.
Supposedly, a parent should ask why should I raise you, what guarantee is that
you will be an ideal son. Well the debate can just go on and on!!
But the fact is, we are born alone and we die alone. It's not that people leave us
in between, it's the emotions I am talking about.

'Then someone asked me, I never hurt someone, why they hurt me.'

Again a tough question but again do you go to a lion and tell him to not eat you
because you do not eat lions!

Well my friends, life is full of mysteries, wonders, happiness, hassles..But is it
not that you know it already! Then why you fell prey to such petty things.
The same I have tried to portray through my upcoming novel.

On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Believe me my friends, at a point in your life you will know all that you have left behind,
you could have done it better, only if you got a chance. Use the chance
in hand buddies with open mind and greater heart. Life moves on and so does you.

My aim with this blog was not to preach something or to provide a conclusion.
I only wished to remind you that you got only one life to spare!!

Depression: Cured!

Depression:

Well, an emotion, most torturing and indeed have also been considered a disease.
But it is not incurable and being in the state is not at all embarrassing.

Believe me when I say this: A person who is not emotionally affected or has never experienced depression once in his life, is not a genuine person. Depression helps you understand yourself. When
you overcome it, your stronger than before. But the problem arises when one is too deep into it.
He is over thinking and depriving himself from positive thoughts.

RISE ABOVE HELPLESSNESS GUYS! YOU GOT ONLY ONE LIFE TO SPARE!

Yes when you have lost your will to survive and stamped the emotion as the end of your world, you become helpless and you fall prey to depression. The problem deepens when you fail to heed to other's advise, assuming they can't feel what you're feeling now. But drill down your heart a bit. You're in the situation!! And those who care for you, can see you clearly, because they are out of the situation. The same I have tried to portray through my upcoming book

On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Follow, what I am advising you. I have been there, we all have been there but we all had our own ways by which we had tackled those gruesome situations.I am giving you a mantra which hopefully you will find useful!

1.Remember everything comes to an end, and you evolve to become someone better.
2.Look for those who love you and never leave them. Getting loved is the best emotion you can have.
3.Go out and enjoy even though you do not like it. Believe me you will slowly have more to enjoy.
4.Don't judge or take important decisions. Remember you are in panic state.
5.People always like those who are charming and happening. A depressed and gloomy face is not so
attractive. Have a smile with a confident look even though you don't feel like.
Believe me, it will do wonders!
6.When you get overwhelmed with emotions, cry, but don't panic. There's nothing wrong in crying.
After a while your brain will demand rest. Thereafter control yourself and think over it, instead
of pitying yourself.

Later you will realize, it was just a phase and part of your life, but not your
entire life!

God Bless you :)

Priorities in LyF!!

Priorities in LyF!!

At various points in our lives, either we are mature enough to think beyond our age and experience, or we are normal enough to think the way we are bound to think.

Friends, Families, career and many more. Well, sometimes the perplexing situations and circumstances, whirl in the pool of expectations, doubt and depression and drive us into an unknown territory of darkness. Take a stand and make a vow:

1. Family

2. Health

3. Career

4. Friends

5. Rest

Whenever you encounter something that makes 'YOU' crazy, always remember the priorities as pointed here. Believe, no matter at what place, in whatever situation, in the distant future you will know you made the right choice!!

On A Drive With Life!!

Love!

Love! The word itself signifies a girl and a boy. The image has since long been glued with the word. But ask me and I will tell you that my true love was my family; my father, my blood who died not because he was guilty of a sin, but because he could not have seen me in pain. Love is not what you give and expect. Love is complete only when you receive and live every bit of it with passion. There would be numerous people whom you would love, but rarely would you find those who love you. People will punish you for your mistakes but you would rarely find those who would lower their dignity and self respect for your survival.

Grab that hand and never ever leave it!

 Always look ahead, that is life. But sometimes in life, look behind and you will know who stands behind you, always to support you, always to help you stand back when you have fallen, it’s is none but your family.

An Extract from The True Love, On A Drive With Life By Ankit Kumar.