On A Drive With Life!!

On A Drive With Life!!
On A Drive With Life!!

Wednesday 30 October 2013

Regret!!

Regret!!

Wow! The topic is gonna gain some attention here.
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Isn't that something we all good people undergo at some point in our lives.
An emotion very less felt but when incinerated, turns out to be a swirling
inferno. Our hearts screams for forgiveness or guilt.
Yes!! Regret and guilt are two different aspects of our lives.
We regret and the outcome is guilt. When in guilt, believe me pals,
You're gonna do mistakes that you have never ever done before.

You may think about the incident, layer by layer and may imagine things that you might not have even done.
You may even try to decipher the emotions of others, like, what they might have thought,
Or you have made a fool of yourself, or they would be laughing out at you…etc etc…
Or you may be overwhelmed with emotions to a level, like when it happens in break ups,
Exams(for studying less), or hurting your closed ones…You may think and think,
blaming yourself for even the slightest of non-existent mistake!
And then you even forget that actually what you are!
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C'mmon man, the fact you even think about such things signifies you're good at heart.
And that you mean't nothing bad. The point here I want to stress is that
you cannot change the basic ingredient of a person. What you did at that point of time
was the best at that circumstance and mindset. Now if you're blaming your mindset
then know this, the purity of heart weighs above all others!

You're heart will find the solution. Just give some time, or sort it out...
But for the moment, just chillax, and watch the beauty known as life!!

Now a punch line as usual!!

WHAT HAPPENED DOESN'T MATTERS, WHY IT HAPPENED MATTERS THE MOST!!!
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Example: You slapped a young beggar!OMG you're such a monster(That's what fools
say)...But when you follow the above line, you'll drill down to know why it
happened...Like the beggar tried robbing him and he slapped in self defence...

ENJOY!!!


Friday 25 October 2013

Stress!

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A word so stressed in our living memories!!
Well it is something that challenges our well being.
And it may be anything: May be physical,
,mental,emotional and you can just count on!
But the the word is stomped deeply in our mindset in a way like
>>>>Stress is when we are disturbed...Overburdened
with adverse circumstances with no solution in hand<<<<
Whoopie!Isn't that driving us totally stressed out!
Well, life is simple: Life is a characteristic that
distinguishes objects that have signaling and
self-sustaining processes from those that do not!

To be more precise, the essence of life is to survive,
gather all the energy to do that and most importantly
the will to execute that. Anything adverse you do
is against the purpose of life. When you generate
emotions that stirs you completely, your overwhelmed
and you freak out...Believe me buddies it is then when your
stressed, be it physical,mental or emotional.
Control your emotions, gather optimism, because
that is why you're here for: To Survive!

                  >>>>>>To The End<<<<<<<<<
Control your thoughts because it will affect what you speak!
Control what you speak because it will affect what you do!
Control what you do because it will affect your behavior!
Control your behavior because it will reflect your habits!
Control You habits because it will shape your character!
Control your character because it will eventually decide your destiny!!!!


Saturday 19 October 2013

Life !

Life !

Life is a characteristic that distinguishes objects 
that have signaling and self-sustaining processes 
from those that do not...

The definition of life... Isn't it strange that the same appiles in practical life.
' A friend asked me why shoud I worship God, What garantee is that I will be
happy tomorrow or I will not die the next moment.'

Well an interesting question.
Supposedly, a parent should ask why should I raise you, what guarantee is that
you will be an ideal son. Well the debate can just go on and on!!
But the fact is, we are born alone and we die alone. It's not that people leave us
in between, it's the emotions I am talking about.

'Then someone asked me, I never hurt someone, why they hurt me.'

Again a tough question but again do you go to a lion and tell him to not eat you
because you do not eat lions!

Well my friends, life is full of mysteries, wonders, happiness, hassles..But is it
not that you know it already! Then why you fell prey to such petty things.
The same I have tried to portray through my upcoming novel.

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Believe me my friends, at a point in your life you will know all that you have left behind,
you could have done it better, only if you got a chance. Use the chance
in hand buddies with open mind and greater heart. Life moves on and so does you.

My aim with this blog was not to preach something or to provide a conclusion.
I only wished to remind you that you got only one life to spare!!

Thursday 17 October 2013

Depression: Cured!


Depression:

Well, an emotion, most torturing and indeed have also been considered a disease.
But it is not incurable and being in the state is not at all embarrassing.

Believe me when I say this: A person who is not emotionally affected or has never experienced depression once in his life, is not a genuine person. Depression helps you understand yourself. When
you overcome it, your stronger than before. But the problem arises when one is too deep into it.
He is over thinking and depriving himself from positive thoughts.

RISE ABOVE HELPLESSNESS GUYS! YOU GOT ONLY ONE LIFE TO SPARE!

Yes when you have lost your will to survive and stamped the emotion as the end of your world, you become helpless and you fall prey to depression. The problem deepens when you fail to heed to other's advise, assuming they can't feel what you're feeling now. But drill down your heart a bit. You're in the situation!! And those who care for you, can see you clearly, because they are out of the situation. The same I have tried to portray through my upcoming book

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Follow, what I am advising you. I have been there, we all have been there but we all had our own ways by which we had tackled those gruesome situations.I am giving you a mantra which hopefully you will find useful!

1.Remember everything comes to an end, and you evolve to become someone better.
2.Look for those who love you and never leave them. Getting loved is the best emotion you can have.
3.Go out and enjoy even though you do not like it. Believe me you will slowly have more to enjoy.
4.Don't judge or take important decisions. Remember you are in panic state.
5.People always like those who are charming and happening. A depressed and gloomy face is not so
attractive. Have a smile with a confident look even though you don't feel like.
Believe me, it will do wonders!
6.When you get overwhelmed with emotions, cry, but don't panic. There's nothing wrong in crying.
After a while your brain will demand rest. Thereafter control yourself and think over it, instead
of pitying yourself.

Later you will realize, it was just a phase and part of your life, but not your
entire life!

God Bless you :)

Wednesday 16 October 2013

Priorities in LyF!!

Priorities in LyF!!


At various points in our lives, either we are mature enough to think beyond our age and experience, or we are normal enough to think the way we are bound to think.

Friends, Families, career and many more. Well, sometimes the perplexing situations and circumstances, whirl in the pool of expectations, doubt and depression and drive us into an unknown territory of darkness. Take a stand and make a vow:

1. Family
2. Health
3. Career
4. Friends
5. Rest

Whenever you encounter something that makes 'YOU' crazy, always remember the priorities as pointed here. Believe, no matter at what place, in whatever situation, in the distant future you will know you made the right choice!!


Monday 14 October 2013

Love!

Love! The word itself signifies a girl and a boy. The image has since long been glued with the word. But ask me and I will tell you that my true love was my family; my father, my blood who died not because he was guilty of a sin, but because he could not have seen me in pain. Love is not what you give and expect. Love is complete only when you receive and live every bit of it with passion. There would be numerous people whom you would love, but rarely would you find those who love you. People will punish you for your mistakes but you would rarely find those who would lower their dignity and self respect for your survival.


Grab that hand and never ever leave it!

 Always look ahead, that is life. But sometimes in life, look behind and you will know who stands behind you, always to support you, always to help you stand back when you have fallen, it’s is none but your family.

An Extract from The True Love, On A Drive With Life By Ankit Kumar.