On A Drive With Life!!

On A Drive With Life!!
On A Drive With Life!!

Sunday 29 December 2013

FRUSTRATION !!

Frustration!!

Now that rings a bell...
Isn't that true that no matter how small or big the level is,
you all are either frustrated or trying to suppress it with an aim to overcome it.

To start with, I won't go into depth initially. Rather I would give an end
to end idea of what exactly this miraculous word, "Frustration" is.

Soon you will realize that it can never be overcome, rather it could be allayed.
Make it your friend and life will be simpler!
First comes a thought or an initiation from anyone or from any circumstance--->Then comes deep thinking,
the time when you start thinking over it--->Then comes observance about the present and future
which generally includes comparison with others--->Then comes introspection
that are you really happy or is this the end of the road---->and then comes Frustration!!

Isn't the word so illusive or you consider it so tormenting, that what you perceive
after reading the above is still on the darker side.
Well, to be precise or to make it less negative, I must begin with a simpler explanations.

Frustration has its root in urge. Like an urge to achieve something, or do something.
That means, it is the impetus that drives you into an itinerary that eventually
assuage our hearts by providing you motivation.

I haven't gone so far but you can notice that the word is already sounding positive enough.
I mean Frustration and Motivation! Isn't that great!
Now allow my words ripen your thoughts and let your brains unravel to absorb
the new essence of the word Frustration!!

THE SAME I HAVE TRIED TO DESCRIBE THROUGH MY UPCOMING BOOK ON A DRIVE WITH LIFE !!(CLICK HERE)

Unfortunately the brain is not like a good bottle of wine that gets
better with age by sitting in a cool dark room. It needs constant
pressure to grow, develop, and even maintain skills over time.
Our brain and central nervous system hunger for Frustration.
The gaining of new knowledge, a desire to experience and understand
love, and the ability to master a new skill are the things that makes
our nerve cells buzz with excitement.

Now it's up to you how you take this excitement. Either as a dose that
overwhelms you and force you into the cauldrom of depression or as an emotion
you can use to drive yourself incessantly towards the golden light of satisfaction.

Frustration is like any other emotion with its own pros and cons.
Isn't it time that we think beyond what we have been told or experienced.
And use everything in a way that can make us better and better, always!

A good question to ask yourself is how you'll handle frustration.
Do you see it as a challenge to overcome, and an opportunity for growth?
Or do you yell and scream and hope someone comes for your rescue?

If you can't find the answers, I will provide you the direction.

Feel the struggle for all it’s worth, and find a new way to overcome it.
You will gain confidence, and those nerve cells might even start buzzing
with excitement again to face the next challenge that comes your way.

May all your frustration plough your heart with seeds of success and happiness!

!!!!!!!!!!NOW THE PUNCH LINE!!WHOOOOOAA!!!!!

To be the man...You got to beat the man!! And this time your opponent is you... It high time you beat yourself  and overcome your emotions...Happiness and satisfaction will then be your comrades :)


Sunday 15 December 2013

Passion

Passion

Hi friends, I humbly apologize for the long absence. But I am back with a bang! ;)

Hope you all had a wonderful time, because I obviously did by passionately enjoying
my days.

The topic here I have chosen, was to be honest suggested to me by a friend.

Well, I will stop there and move on with accentuating on the essence of this wonderful word that has
such a significant meaning in our lives.

Passion is that driving force, the impetus that boosts your energy exponentially in any task.
And when you indulge ourselves to live that passion, you fly high beyond the constraints of the
external world. You're in love with whatever you do. You cherish every moment of your lives intensely.

WHOOOOOOOO!!You're in a different world. But the sad part is that a select few are lucky enough to live and relive their passion while the others get stuck in the twiddling web of worldly responsibilities.

Isn't that strange, that if each and every one of us had
lived our passion, this world would have been a different
and better place. Indeed we have lost numerous
talents in the process.

But stop again, have I been forgetting something.
Yup I am! With every pros there comes a flaw, and the
word can be so misleading at certain times.

When we are passionate about something, we fuel ourselves
high and give out best with utmost dedication.
Harmoniously passionate people can engage in work in an intense way,
which they self-report as “concentration.” And then they
dissociate from the reality. They consider them to be the most
hard working person around. Is it not self obsession?
Surely it is! There is a sharp line between obsession and passion
which may drive you away from reality.

You become obsessed with something the moment you're not in
control of time and emotions. Your passion smothers your
conscience and for you, it becomes more than your family
and life. A failure then blocks your mind frame and you
may fall in the cockpit of depression.

Always remember, passion only needs your time and dedication
and that time could be of any amount that assuage your
hearts. But never forget that the moment you raise the level of
getting satisfied, you will require more time and dedication,
and then you cross that sharp line into the realms of obsession.

Others may cry of not living their passions because of the
responsibilities. But is it really so? Has the time passed
so much that you cannot take risks or even dedicate
an hour from your daily lives?

The same I have tried to convey through my upcoming book On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Again, passion may not be something that is always useful
in your day to day living, until you choose it to under self-control.
You may be passionate about dancing that may also earn you bread and butter,
but what if your passionate about wearing new clothes. Well it may not sound feasible to survive
only on your passion, but one can think hard and link their passion
with their jobs. For example, a branded cloth shop!

I hope the discussion here may help you. Because Whatever I said was a reminded for you
to introspect hard!
I will now like to summarize the above in a sentence:

Be Passionate But Be Yourselves!!

And now for the punch line as usual :D

!!The time is always right to do what is right!!