Ambition !!

Perhaps I have chosen another topic that deals with our day to day lives. Now I may not accentuate at it's definition. I assume you that by your experiences and perceptions you may have an idea of it. I would rather brush up things that you may have forgotten. 

Ambition...isn't that something each and everyone of us have deep within our hearts....A common man dreams to be rich...That's ambition...A businessman wants become even richer....That's ambition...A spiritual guru may crave to attain 'moksha'...I may even say it to be an ambition...

Our lives are full of 'Wants' and 'Desires' and believe me when I say so, they eventually adds up to shape your ambition. Haven't we been hearing "Think what you wish for" because  wishes are the consequences of your years and years of burning ambition!

So you see how the cycle goes on. Your blind ambition may drive you away from your family and friends or even your moral values. An unreachable ambition may even drive you crazy or send you to the cockpit of depression.

I must say a life without ambition is a waste. BUT think for a moment my friends, should we not stress on 'What we can' rather than cooking rabbits that cannot be  caught.

The same I have tried to emphasize in my upcoming book On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Now I am not trying to sway you away from your goals that happens to be the destination of your ambitions. Will and determination makes everything achievable. I just wanna add that everything has a price. So make sure what you pay for before engrossing yourselves to capture the flag of your ambition held high.

Life changes and so does circumstances which may throw new challenges. You have got only one life to live. Because the people you encounter while climbing up the ladders of ambition towards success, you will find them at some points while climbing or falling down.
Every moment, try to think and analyse what you want or desire...Who knows it slowly adds up to a swirling tornado of uncontrollable ambition....And if you forgot to think before, pray that you don't fall hard.

**********************************THE PUNCH LINE***************************

!!WHO CARES WHAT YOU ARE, LIVE LIFE KING SIZE!!

BUT EVEN A KING IS USELESS WITHOUT ANYONE TO ACKNOWLEDGE OR RESPECT HIM ;)

ENJOY :)

SACRIFICE !

Sacrifice!

A word held so noble which can even define the
moral character of a person.

In simple terms, it is a loss of something
you give or do for a "Better Cause".

Mark my words again, "Better Cause".

But in due course of time the word has been confused so much with our own interpretations,
that the essence of the word is fading away. People offer sacrifice to gods which may include
fruits, flowers, blood, food, money and the list is countless.

People offer sacrifice by giving away money or food to a beggar.

People sacrifice their time and emotions to help their family and friends.

All looks well and fine with nothing wrong in that. But dear friends as I discussed above, sacrifice is
for a better cause. Does the blood, food, flowers you offered to the Gods is a for a better cause. If yes then for whom. If it brings fortune to you, then is it a sacrifice or hypocrisy.

THINK ON IT!

You may give something to a beggar, he may take it. He is happy for now. But ask yourself, what you did was good or better. If it is good then work for better. Get involved in social activities and bring smiles on the underprivileged.

We sacrifice our time and emotions to help our friends and family. Now if it is selfless, then you're flawless. But what if it is done so as to impress them, or have expectations to receive the same
in the future.

We all have our own way of deciphering the deep meaning of the word.
I have just provided the direction to go on.

Think on it buddies!
The same I have tried to discuss in my upcoming book
On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Now the Punch Line as Usual!

Happiness is not a destination, it's a journey...So Live the Moment!! :)

Love : A Highly Discussed Topic!

Love : A Highly Discussed Topic!

Hello guys, I hope all of you are rocking as ever.
The topic I chose again, because that is something
discussed and felt most prominently than the others!

What is love?A question I have portrayed and answered
prominently and frequently in my up coming book.
On A Drive With Life!!(Click here)

Now Lemme answer!!
Is it an emotions...A Feeling...A experience...
Or just and another name of satiating our needs..

Well to very honest, all can be summed up into one
and the result is love. But before I move forward,
I wanna add for sure that love is not exactly
between a girl and a boy!We have most often heard
terms like, motherly love, brotherly love, fatherly love,
friendly love and you can go on. Love is in the air
buddies, you just need to broaden your perspective.
The feeling when you're loved and cared is the best.
So my first suggestion to all of you is to stop looking
for it at only one place. We all have been gifted with
love in one form or another. Look at the right place
and you'll be rejuvenated to a new height! Take this
chance, take this moment and recall all who love you
at present, be it anyone. Take this opportunity and call
them, talk to them and feel better than before.

Now you may ask again... Why haven't I explained what love
is or discussed anything about it. Dear friends, I repeat again
Love is broader than your percieve. You will take ages to decipher
the codes of love. But one thing I must say, if you've really read
my blog with an open mind and heed to what I say and have stirred up
your emotions, then...The feeling, the emotion, the experience or
 the need to get in touch with your loved ones right now,
is what love actually is...Enjoy the moment!!

Time for the Punch Line ;)

Love is not walking,talking,hugging,kissing
or something you feel at the moment. It is anything
that evinces respect,care,concern,trust and compromise!

Regret!!

Regret!!

Wow! The topic is gonna gain some attention here.
On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Isn't that something we all good people undergo at some point in our lives.
An emotion very less felt but when incinerated, turns out to be a swirling
inferno. Our hearts screams for forgiveness or guilt.
Yes!! Regret and guilt are two different aspects of our lives.
We regret and the outcome is guilt. When in guilt, believe me pals,
You're gonna do mistakes that you have never ever done before.

You may think about the incident, layer by layer and may imagine things that you might not have even done.
You may even try to decipher the emotions of others, like, what they might have thought,
Or you have made a fool of yourself, or they would be laughing out at you…etc etc…
Or you may be overwhelmed with emotions to a level, like when it happens in break ups,
Exams(for studying less), or hurting your closed ones…You may think and think,
blaming yourself for even the slightest of non-existent mistake!
And then you even forget that actually what you are!
On A Drive With Life!! (Click Here)
C'mmon man, the fact you even think about such things signifies you're good at heart.
And that you mean't nothing bad. The point here I want to stress is that
you cannot change the basic ingredient of a person. What you did at that point of time
was the best at that circumstance and mindset. Now if you're blaming your mindset
then know this, the purity of heart weighs above all others!

You're heart will find the solution. Just give some time, or sort it out...
But for the moment, just chillax, and watch the beauty known as life!!

Now a punch line as usual!!

WHAT HAPPENED DOESN'T MATTERS, WHY IT HAPPENED MATTERS THE MOST!!!
On A Drive WIth Life!!(Click Here)

Example: You slapped a young beggar!OMG you're such a monster(That's what fools
say)...But when you follow the above line, you'll drill down to know why it
happened...Like the beggar tried robbing him and he slapped in self defence...

ENJOY!!!

Stress!

Stress: On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)
A word so stressed in our living memories!!
Well it is something that challenges our well being.
And it may be anything: May be physical,
,mental,emotional and you can just count on!
But the the word is stomped deeply in our mindset in a way like
>>>>Stress is when we are disturbed...Overburdened
with adverse circumstances with no solution in hand<<<<
Whoopie!Isn't that driving us totally stressed out!
Well, life is simple: Life is a characteristic that
distinguishes objects that have signaling and
self-sustaining processes from those that do not!

To be more precise, the essence of life is to survive,
gather all the energy to do that and most importantly
the will to execute that. Anything adverse you do
is against the purpose of life. When you generate
emotions that stirs you completely, your overwhelmed
and you freak out...Believe me buddies it is then when your
stressed, be it physical,mental or emotional.
Control your emotions, gather optimism, because
that is why you're here for: To Survive!

                  >>>>>>To The End<<<<<<<<<
Control your thoughts because it will affect what you speak!
Control what you speak because it will affect what you do!
Control what you do because it will affect your behavior!
Control your behavior because it will reflect your habits!
Control You habits because it will shape your character!
Control your character because it will eventually decide your destiny!!!!

Life !

Life !

Life is a characteristic that distinguishes objects 
that have signaling and self-sustaining processes 
from those that do not...

The definition of life... Isn't it strange that the same appiles in practical life.
' A friend asked me why shoud I worship God, What garantee is that I will be
happy tomorrow or I will not die the next moment.'

Well an interesting question.
Supposedly, a parent should ask why should I raise you, what guarantee is that
you will be an ideal son. Well the debate can just go on and on!!
But the fact is, we are born alone and we die alone. It's not that people leave us
in between, it's the emotions I am talking about.

'Then someone asked me, I never hurt someone, why they hurt me.'

Again a tough question but again do you go to a lion and tell him to not eat you
because you do not eat lions!

Well my friends, life is full of mysteries, wonders, happiness, hassles..But is it
not that you know it already! Then why you fell prey to such petty things.
The same I have tried to portray through my upcoming novel.

On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Believe me my friends, at a point in your life you will know all that you have left behind,
you could have done it better, only if you got a chance. Use the chance
in hand buddies with open mind and greater heart. Life moves on and so does you.

My aim with this blog was not to preach something or to provide a conclusion.
I only wished to remind you that you got only one life to spare!!

Depression: Cured!

Depression:

Well, an emotion, most torturing and indeed have also been considered a disease.
But it is not incurable and being in the state is not at all embarrassing.

Believe me when I say this: A person who is not emotionally affected or has never experienced depression once in his life, is not a genuine person. Depression helps you understand yourself. When
you overcome it, your stronger than before. But the problem arises when one is too deep into it.
He is over thinking and depriving himself from positive thoughts.

RISE ABOVE HELPLESSNESS GUYS! YOU GOT ONLY ONE LIFE TO SPARE!

Yes when you have lost your will to survive and stamped the emotion as the end of your world, you become helpless and you fall prey to depression. The problem deepens when you fail to heed to other's advise, assuming they can't feel what you're feeling now. But drill down your heart a bit. You're in the situation!! And those who care for you, can see you clearly, because they are out of the situation. The same I have tried to portray through my upcoming book

On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here)

Follow, what I am advising you. I have been there, we all have been there but we all had our own ways by which we had tackled those gruesome situations.I am giving you a mantra which hopefully you will find useful!

1.Remember everything comes to an end, and you evolve to become someone better.
2.Look for those who love you and never leave them. Getting loved is the best emotion you can have.
3.Go out and enjoy even though you do not like it. Believe me you will slowly have more to enjoy.
4.Don't judge or take important decisions. Remember you are in panic state.
5.People always like those who are charming and happening. A depressed and gloomy face is not so
attractive. Have a smile with a confident look even though you don't feel like.
Believe me, it will do wonders!
6.When you get overwhelmed with emotions, cry, but don't panic. There's nothing wrong in crying.
After a while your brain will demand rest. Thereafter control yourself and think over it, instead
of pitying yourself.

Later you will realize, it was just a phase and part of your life, but not your
entire life!

God Bless you :)