MOTIVATION !!

Motivation!!

Now that's the topic I have chosen. My comrades

lend your ears and the coming years of your

lives to this word and perhaps it will change things forever.

All the topics I have discussed so far have somehow

transformed every negatively perceived words

into a positive discernment. But again one thing

was common. Each of them eventually found their

ultimate goal in M O T I V A T I O N.

Motivation is basically an impetus that drives

your desires into action. Now the motivation

can be anything, be it success, hunger, thirst

and the list can go on. But we the drivers

of our own lives will do something different.

We will dig further and get a better understanding

of this enamoring words: Motivation.

Some say you're not motivated towards your studies!

Some say you're not motivated towards your work!

Some say you're not motivated towards your thoughts!

AHEM AHEM! Blow up the clouds, clear off the smoke,

tie up your shoes and hit them hard! The above are mere

comments to change your way of thinking, so that you

find motivation in the purpose as specified above.

Well ask yourselves isn't that an artificial motivation

in which we engross ourselves completely, forgetting

that it was not exactly what you had ever wanted.

Because:

Motivation is an energy that comes out of your desires

to achieve something.

Emphasize on the words.

Now where in the damn hell that energy comes from! Now that's

a big question. If you will read all my other blogs you will realize

that passion has a role, frustration has its role, Love has a role,

and to your shock, even ego plays a role. Now I won't keep diversifying,

rather I will integrate them into one. It is very simple and I hope

you will absorb essence of it for life.

The very thought that gives you that energy, the intensity, the positive

emotion or the reward value of the goal, only that thought can keep

you motivated. Remember, studies, work or even your lives will go astray

until you find that "Thought" that will change you forever.

And only then you will really know the real meaning of being motivated.

My friends you have got just one life, use it wisely, spend it nicely.

Dedicate even 15 minutes daily away from phones, internet and everything.

Close your eyes and just keep introspecting. Believe me you'll start seeing

the change. Your eyes will evince a new motivation which will then determine

your actions and shape your future!

The same I have tried to convey through my upcoming book On A Drive With Life(Click Here)

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 The Two important days in your lives are the day when you are born and the day when you find out why!

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EGO !!

EGO !!

Hello my dear comrades...

Hope we have gone far more mature via these blogs.
Hehe...Just wanted to shower some praises at myself :P.

As an addict and as much of a wanderer I am, I have again
chosen a topic that is both controversial and generally
used as a negative term. Indeed I have heard people using
the term "Egoistic" as a derogatory term.

But we as the drivers of our own lives have chosen to put forth
a different perspective all the time. So let's have a got at it,
all again ;)

Just read the below C A R E F U L L Y!
"Having anything is good thing, If you know how to use it"

Else it is a waste; Be it a car, a mobile, a lappy, anger, love, desires,
efforts and of course ego!

BONZAIII! Now you hit the point. Or rather I got carried away too early.
Allow me to elaborate even further...
Everything has a darker side that includes everything we can see, feel or
perceive. And so does ego. It is that most of us can't control it and thus
contain it at the darker side. Hence, it is usually generalized as something
disparaging.

The one they refer can be rather labelled as “negative ego.”
It is our general reaction based on perception and judgments,
usually irrational, that creates a sense of separation between ourselves and others,
that labels people and things as “better than” or “worse than.”

In simpler terms, when we begin to delimit ourselves with concepts,
thoughts, rivalry etc, it hurts a part of us that makes it painful
to survive even a minor blow in life. Hence, we cling to the shield of
this negative ego to boost our morale and belittle others to survive
just another day.

Well last I slackened my torso and introspected, I am still not the "Buddha"
and hence this part of me comes into play at times.

Negative ego is just a part of our thought process gone wrong and
has started to window out through our actions in real life. But the moment
we learn to control it, like any other thing, it becomes an ally.

Ego in more precise terms is the mirror of our inner self, that what
exactly is going inside us. The moment we stop it from shrouding our
thought process and start observing how it can affect our words
and actions. We then become the master of our own response.

This controlled ego can then become a driving force in our lives
which can then motivate us further and instill the passion to fuel
that impetus. Start focusing on facts and what you exactly want
and then use that ego to go over anything and anyone.

Consider your ego as a rogue, untrained, immature and scared child.
Treat it with love and compassion.

I won't go more descriptive. We are mature enough to understand.
Your ego should be rather "I can do it or I will reach the point
of success via my abilities". It should never be used to belittle
others in order to console your inner self.

The same I have tried to convey through my upcoming book On A Drive With Life(Click Here)

--------> Time FoR A PuNcH LiNe<-------

The Ultimate aim of ego is not to see something...
But to Be something.....

"Thrive on Strife!"

"Thrive on Strife!"

This is what we have come to...Muslims won Kargil war or Hindus won Kargil war and then we ask people to bring a leader who is not communal...For God Sake have any number of elections but please keep your noses off the armed forces and stop citing exceptions! No one and nothing is perfect, but again being imperfect is not a sin..Soldiers die for their country not for a region or a religion..Throw such politicians out of politics because if such people have to have the ultimate power then who will protect the very fabric of our culture, society, constitution and country! Politicians just stop only condemning any remarks directed towards the armed forces...It's time you set an example and teach such people a lesson..This is an insult to soldiers who have died for their country...

"Understanding" Emotions of The Opposite Gender

"Understanding" Emotions of The Opposite Gender

I am quite sure that the word itself flushes your face with fervor. Obviously, your brains would be tuning your
heart with the emotions of today or past. But be well assured my friends, as usual my aim is to
help you sustain the beauty of everything that matters to you, and not to take you in flashbacks.
Driver of their own lives, lend me some moments from your lives and believe me, by the time you have finished reading the passage, your perception would have changed!

To all the men, you might not know this. Ego, well that plays well with you. Complimented on smiles, ethics, style etc etc etc boosts the feeling and it keeps him going smooth. The feeling to get respected,
admired and wanted is what glues him to any relationship. Advise to women: Don't cater your self-respect, but a perfect balance between love and admiration works wonders!

Well it may sound odd to many, but women don't want attention(Except the initial
phase though ;) )...Rather they want the appreciation in every small things
they put in a relationship.

Same I have done to portray through my upcoming book On A Drive With Life(Click Here)

Just clear down your brain lanes and know this: Psychologically, women
accentuates on every small and good things in their relationships.
Like a letter in a box, a chocolate given unexpectedly,care and the list
may go on. But again, as they say, the good may be worst when implemented
on the darker side. They will count even small and most infinitesimal of your
mistakes. This may include behaving in a manner she doesn't expect you
to be. Not appreciating on something she would have expected you to be.

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Well men, let the grin on your face not widen much because your jaws may drop
open. Men may ignore small things and instead of counting them as a whole,
an incident that may impact him can provoke him behave in a catastrophic manner.
He may count on your bigger mistakes, which obviously includes not letting him
feel admired. Jealousy may also count into this. Similarly, a larger
good done to him that may boost him up, is sonorous in his mind throughout.

Friends, I know these are just the basics, or may be I am wrong!
But hope if empathized correctly, it can do wonders ;)

------->>>>>TiMe FoR ThE PuNcH LiNe<<<<<-------
If You consider someone your whole life, then improve
your life first!

Love!

Love!

Well I know the topic is absorbing but feel your
nerves that play a like a guitar whenever the
word comes across you.

The experience on the other hand is so enthralling
that everything in the world seems more or like satellites
around it. The sun seems blue, the sky red,
the flowers so beautiful and the birds like angels of
God!

You feel the significance of sacrifice, moments,
smile and happiness even though nobody ever told you so.
Doesn't that inspire awe, admiration or even let us wonder
how everything changes soon.

Well I am not here to ruin this sacred pilgrimage of the divine.
Rather I will choose to glorify it so that it sustain the slaps
of life and at the same time survive to it, sound and healthy!

My friends, lend me you ears and I will feed in the golden words.
The same I have tried to portray through my upcoming book
On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here) or (Click Here).

"Spend quality time and not Quantity of time!"

A few relationships count hours and days they spent together.
Remember, it is the quality of time that will give you memories
while the latter will only give you a habit.

"Love is life, but not the center of the Universe."

The moment you start giving everything you have, including
your thoughts, efforts and time completely engrossed in to it,
you cut the fragile bond with reality. You lose your connection
with friends, hobbies and the willingness to live. So usually when
break ups happen, you feel like dying!

"One who cares less controls the relationship."

Now don't take me wrong. I am not talking about ego or anything like
that. What I wish to convey is; When you start waiting for someone's call,
give importance to what the other person may think of you or excruciate
yourself because the other person ignored you. Believe me my friends, the relationship
will soon land in the cockpit of expectations, fights and distance. The other
person who cared a bit less and gave time to his/her life, unintentionally
controlled your relationship.

"Give space, pursue your hobbies, have a life beyond it and be charming, ambitious
and sane, because that is what every other person,be it anyone desires :)"

------->THE PUNCH LINE ON ITS WAYYYYY!<--------

Move on, It's just a chapter in your life! Don't close the book, just turn the page ;)