EGO !!

EGO !!

Hello my dear comrades...

Hope we have gone far more mature via these blogs.
Hehe...Just wanted to shower some praises at myself :P.

As an addict and as much of a wanderer I am, I have again
chosen a topic that is both controversial and generally
used as a negative term. Indeed I have heard people using
the term "Egoistic" as a derogatory term.

But we as the drivers of our own lives have chosen to put forth
a different perspective all the time. So let's have a got at it,
all again ;)

Just read the below C A R E F U L L Y!
"Having anything is good thing, If you know how to use it"

Else it is a waste; Be it a car, a mobile, a lappy, anger, love, desires,
efforts and of course ego!

BONZAIII! Now you hit the point. Or rather I got carried away too early.
Allow me to elaborate even further...
Everything has a darker side that includes everything we can see, feel or
perceive. And so does ego. It is that most of us can't control it and thus
contain it at the darker side. Hence, it is usually generalized as something
disparaging.

The one they refer can be rather labelled as “negative ego.”
It is our general reaction based on perception and judgments,
usually irrational, that creates a sense of separation between ourselves and others,
that labels people and things as “better than” or “worse than.”

In simpler terms, when we begin to delimit ourselves with concepts,
thoughts, rivalry etc, it hurts a part of us that makes it painful
to survive even a minor blow in life. Hence, we cling to the shield of
this negative ego to boost our morale and belittle others to survive
just another day.

Well last I slackened my torso and introspected, I am still not the "Buddha"
and hence this part of me comes into play at times.

Negative ego is just a part of our thought process gone wrong and
has started to window out through our actions in real life. But the moment
we learn to control it, like any other thing, it becomes an ally.

Ego in more precise terms is the mirror of our inner self, that what
exactly is going inside us. The moment we stop it from shrouding our
thought process and start observing how it can affect our words
and actions. We then become the master of our own response.

This controlled ego can then become a driving force in our lives
which can then motivate us further and instill the passion to fuel
that impetus. Start focusing on facts and what you exactly want
and then use that ego to go over anything and anyone.

Consider your ego as a rogue, untrained, immature and scared child.
Treat it with love and compassion.

I won't go more descriptive. We are mature enough to understand.
Your ego should be rather "I can do it or I will reach the point
of success via my abilities". It should never be used to belittle
others in order to console your inner self.

The same I have tried to convey through my upcoming book On A Drive With Life(Click Here)

--------> Time FoR A PuNcH LiNe<-------

The Ultimate aim of ego is not to see something...
But to Be something.....

"Thrive on Strife!"

"Thrive on Strife!"

This is what we have come to...Muslims won Kargil war or Hindus won Kargil war and then we ask people to bring a leader who is not communal...For God Sake have any number of elections but please keep your noses off the armed forces and stop citing exceptions! No one and nothing is perfect, but again being imperfect is not a sin..Soldiers die for their country not for a region or a religion..Throw such politicians out of politics because if such people have to have the ultimate power then who will protect the very fabric of our culture, society, constitution and country! Politicians just stop only condemning any remarks directed towards the armed forces...It's time you set an example and teach such people a lesson..This is an insult to soldiers who have died for their country...

"Understanding" Emotions of The Opposite Gender

"Understanding" Emotions of The Opposite Gender

I am quite sure that the word itself flushes your face with fervor. Obviously, your brains would be tuning your
heart with the emotions of today or past. But be well assured my friends, as usual my aim is to
help you sustain the beauty of everything that matters to you, and not to take you in flashbacks.
Driver of their own lives, lend me some moments from your lives and believe me, by the time you have finished reading the passage, your perception would have changed!

To all the men, you might not know this. Ego, well that plays well with you. Complimented on smiles, ethics, style etc etc etc boosts the feeling and it keeps him going smooth. The feeling to get respected,
admired and wanted is what glues him to any relationship. Advise to women: Don't cater your self-respect, but a perfect balance between love and admiration works wonders!

Well it may sound odd to many, but women don't want attention(Except the initial
phase though ;) )...Rather they want the appreciation in every small things
they put in a relationship.

Same I have done to portray through my upcoming book On A Drive With Life(Click Here)

Just clear down your brain lanes and know this: Psychologically, women
accentuates on every small and good things in their relationships.
Like a letter in a box, a chocolate given unexpectedly,care and the list
may go on. But again, as they say, the good may be worst when implemented
on the darker side. They will count even small and most infinitesimal of your
mistakes. This may include behaving in a manner she doesn't expect you
to be. Not appreciating on something she would have expected you to be.

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Well men, let the grin on your face not widen much because your jaws may drop
open. Men may ignore small things and instead of counting them as a whole,
an incident that may impact him can provoke him behave in a catastrophic manner.
He may count on your bigger mistakes, which obviously includes not letting him
feel admired. Jealousy may also count into this. Similarly, a larger
good done to him that may boost him up, is sonorous in his mind throughout.

Friends, I know these are just the basics, or may be I am wrong!
But hope if empathized correctly, it can do wonders ;)

------->>>>>TiMe FoR ThE PuNcH LiNe<<<<<-------
If You consider someone your whole life, then improve
your life first!

Love!

Love!

Well I know the topic is absorbing but feel your
nerves that play a like a guitar whenever the
word comes across you.

The experience on the other hand is so enthralling
that everything in the world seems more or like satellites
around it. The sun seems blue, the sky red,
the flowers so beautiful and the birds like angels of
God!

You feel the significance of sacrifice, moments,
smile and happiness even though nobody ever told you so.
Doesn't that inspire awe, admiration or even let us wonder
how everything changes soon.

Well I am not here to ruin this sacred pilgrimage of the divine.
Rather I will choose to glorify it so that it sustain the slaps
of life and at the same time survive to it, sound and healthy!

My friends, lend me you ears and I will feed in the golden words.
The same I have tried to portray through my upcoming book
On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here) or (Click Here).

"Spend quality time and not Quantity of time!"

A few relationships count hours and days they spent together.
Remember, it is the quality of time that will give you memories
while the latter will only give you a habit.

"Love is life, but not the center of the Universe."

The moment you start giving everything you have, including
your thoughts, efforts and time completely engrossed in to it,
you cut the fragile bond with reality. You lose your connection
with friends, hobbies and the willingness to live. So usually when
break ups happen, you feel like dying!

"One who cares less controls the relationship."

Now don't take me wrong. I am not talking about ego or anything like
that. What I wish to convey is; When you start waiting for someone's call,
give importance to what the other person may think of you or excruciate
yourself because the other person ignored you. Believe me my friends, the relationship
will soon land in the cockpit of expectations, fights and distance. The other
person who cared a bit less and gave time to his/her life, unintentionally
controlled your relationship.

"Give space, pursue your hobbies, have a life beyond it and be charming, ambitious
and sane, because that is what every other person,be it anyone desires :)"

------->THE PUNCH LINE ON ITS WAYYYYY!<--------

Move on, It's just a chapter in your life! Don't close the book, just turn the page ;)

Superstition!!

Superstition!!

A word that had been somehow related with people who
are uneducated, religious and people with blind faith.

Hmm...Interesting observation. But wait "Observation", does something
strikes you. Well allow me to light up a few candles. We observe and we
tend to do something in the similar fashion the next time.

Like, you observe that giving sweets to your boss keeps you in his good books.
You try to do the same the next time. You observe that an apple a day keeps you
healthy, you have it daily and advise the others to do the same. Well, somewhere
or other, observation is deeply related to Superstition. But again
it has its base in something more elusive.

We humans tend to forget that during the process of evolution
we have evolved to dilute a fact that we were born to survive
with constant fear of death or harm. Our well being and the desire
to survive mattered the most. Gradually we developed emotions which
gave us the senses to even care about our loved ones. The more we cared
the more we became vigilant about seen and unforeseen things that can harm us.

And the fear of any unanticipated events is what that has ever since driven
us to be superstitious. The fear of the hidden makes us do things or even
think the unimaginable. And then here comes the unbreakable relation between
superstition and observation. We observe that wearing a locket brings good luck.
We never bring it off in a hope that we will be fortunate enough to survive
everything. We observe that doing a ritual may brought someone peace
and prosperity and we try to repeat the same.

In the past all was based on observation and fear. And even though we have been
smart enough to separate both to an extent, but ask yourself, are we not
superstitious enough in our own way. Everything we do on daily basis
somewhere signifies, that somewhere deep inside, we all are superstitious
in ourselves.

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********!!NOW THE PUNCH LINE AS USUAL!!***********

Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature,
nor do the children of men as a whole experience it.
Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure.
Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.

Thoughts To Cherish and Introspect!

Since long I have been dealing with topics to instill a belief that things are still better....

Today I won't get much far with it, but for sure I will bring into notice some miraculous thoughts that indeed requires some introspection:

"If you want to walk fast, walk alone
But if you want to walk far, walk together"

Splendid thought!

"How strange it is that we wish to wear fancy and branded clothes
 but we feel the most comfortable in pyjamas"

Hmmm....That is indeed true :)

"We wish to sit with elite people,
have dinners in 5 start hotels, but yet
we enjoy road side tea with friends and those we love"

"We wish to own big cars and go on a long drive,
Yet we take out hearts out while walking down the long road"

I am sure you all feel the same :)

"We may own 64GB ipods and all that stuff
but sometimes even a song on radio" brings a smile
that can't be compared!

So you see friends, it's not what you want, but it's what you truly wish inside.
Aim at it and you will be the happiest person down the long road...That is life :)

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**************************THE PUNCH LINE**************
Sometimes in a life, a situation will keep returning,
until you learn from it :)

APPLYING THE SECRET "THE GAME CHANGER!!"

Hi Guys!!!!

Hope you all are driving your lives on your own
terms.

Now before you go on a drive with your life while
reading below let me ask few questions to you,
the answer of which you will introspect for a while.

What determines how the day goes?Why are you distressed
and you have to start over again?

THINK THINK THINK BUT DON't GET DISTRESSED ;)

Let me throw some hints. Every small things that
bothers you, somewhere triggers another missile of
disaster directed towards you.

Ex:You woke and you are frustrated going to office->
You went to the bathroom and you hurt your knee and then your mad
->The Breakfast you had has no salt,you're now crazy->You had a gruesome
encounter with the traffic,you're now boiling with anger->You reach office
and you realize all your work pending and it goes on and on.....

A common man calls it a bad day. But a few of them will tell you, it was
rather a bad choice of thoughts that attracted all those events.

"YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU THINK!!"

So what is that grand solution. The best way is to not distract yourselves
and always remember your priority is to make this day the best you ever had
no matter what.

The same I have done to portray through my upcoming book On A Drive With Life!!(CLICK HERE)

But that is not as easy as it seems. Allow me to suggest some prescribed
practices :D....

1. Every morning give 5 minutes to yourself, visualizing what you exactly
want you to be. Feel the emotion that the thought generates. Remember,
the emotion matters, the more vibrant and positive it is, the more it
drives you to achieve it and you get determined.

2. Everyday take few minutes and be grateful to what you have: Like a sweet family,
a loving wife, a caring friend, a job which many don't have, an ailment free life
while many suffer from it. Look at those who don't have it and you will know how
fortunate you have been!

3. Every negative word or a thought that crosses your mind, somehow negates
the optimism you might have generated. Try overwhelming yourself with a smile
or jokes, believe me an optimistic thought is thousand times more powerful
than a negative one. But the negative thought is like an oil field which once
sparked may sweep through your entire mind.

The above suggestions are just to be tried and soon you will see the difference!

!!!!!NOW THE PUNCH LINE AS AWLAYS !!!!!

The happiest people don't necessarily
have the best of everything.
They just make the best of everything they have :))